Thank you for reaching out and asking these important questions. I am going to share my thoughts on your situation as candidly as possible. An emotional affair is when a married or committed partner turns to an individual outside of the partnership to fulfill emotional needs. The situation you are describing with your coworker sounds like an emotional affair, especially because it appears that your wife is not aware of the type and amount of contact you have had with this woman. Eventually, many people find themselves in an all-out affair. Even if nothing has happened yet, there is a very real possibility that could change very quickly. There are a few significant things that make a relationship with someone outside of a partner so enticing.
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My wife and I have been married for 25 years. She is still good looking. I'm the only man she has been with. It turns me on to think about watching her with another guy. Or to have hot sex when she comes home from a date.
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