What is the Bible's view of anal sex generally? Is it alright to engage in it in marriage? Is there scriptural basis to reject anal sex? The Bible does not say anything about anal sex between and husband and wife in marriage. The same situation also exists regarding self-masturbation and oral sex in marriage. However, there are biblical principles that provide some guidelines. First we will examine evidence provided by psychologists and medical authorities and conclude by looking at what the Bible says about anal sex in marriage.
Anal sex or sodomy is anal intercourse between individuals. It is forbidden in Sunni Islam and by most Shia scholars. The basic text of Islam is the Quran , believed by Muslims to represent the direct revelation of God to the prophet Muhammad. In terms of direct references in several places in the Qur'an, anal intercourse is identified with liwat , the "sin of Lot's people".
Your wife has said no. You have respected her on that. Unless you are planning on breaking your marriage vows and potentially jeopardising your entire future with your wife for the sake of putting your penis in someones anus, then I suggest you leave the subject. There are a thousand and one things that you can do with your wife that are not anal sex. You could explore other avenues in a similar vein such as anal play with you, she could potentially peg you will a dildo that so that you can experience anal sex on the receiving end, you could ask her if she would be interested in trying Anilingus etc or a finger in her anus, and she may naturally come around to the idea herself.