Edging , peaking , or surfing ,  is an orgasm control sexual technique that may be practiced either alone or with a partner and involves the maintenance of a high level of sexual arousal for an extended period of time without reaching climax. When practiced by males, orgasm control allows the practitioner to enjoy direct sexual stimulation without waiting through the refractory period common after orgasm. When the decision is made to allow orgasm, the physical sensations may be much greater and more pleasurable than if the orgasm were experienced conventionally. Since orgasm control prolongs the experience of powerful sexual sensations occurring during the final build-up to orgasm, the physical demands of being kept or keeping oneself in this highly excited state for an extended time can induce a pleasurable, almost euphoric state.
A Beginners Guide To Orgasm Denial: What Is It & Why Should You Want It?
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The idea of getting off on not getting off might sound a little contradictory, but for many people, orgasm denial is a seriously pleasurable addition to sex and masturbation. Orgasm denial is the act of experiencing or allowing someone else to experience a high level of sexual pleasure for a long time without allowing an orgasm. Erotic sexual denial can strengthen your intimacy with a partner and lead you both to high levels of sexual stimulation without actually orgasming. This technique can also create an intense orgasm during solo masturbation.
I suspect that spending years dealing with premature ejaculation, and later erectile dysfunction, was the real reason. I was just never that into it though. My mind was firmly focused on somehow lasting longer than the previously embarrassing session. My main problem these days is unpredictable erection problems.