Ladies, this is a big weekend for us. And no, sorry, I'm not talking about Valentine's Day. I'm not here to talk romance. When it comes to sex, I'm going to let you in on a secret: You will not orgasm from penetration alone. Not suggested. Not encouraged. I'd like to warn you, doggy style is not included.
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Yes, passionate, energetic, never-knew-my-body-could-bend-that-way sex might keep your love life feelin' fresh. But if you want to figure out your body and what absolutely gives you an orgasm every time, starting smaller can yield big results. To add more directed friction to woman-on top, try pulling out a few times so they're completely outside of you and slide your lubed up vulva over the underside of their penis. Experiment with long up-and-down strokes over their shaft, short side-to-side motions, or rub the head of their penis around your clitoris to see what's gonna do it for you.
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Some things in life are better on repeat: Friends , perfectly sunny beach days, your trusty white manicure. Your sexcapades, though? Definitely not one of them. Even the hottest spark in the bedroom needs new sex positions to stoke the flames from time to time—otherwise things get boring, fast.
If you're a woman who finds climaxing easy and can have orgasms during intercourse with little effort — even in a position where it's difficult for your partner to access the clitoris with the fingertips — then you are very lucky indeed! For the majority of us, 'ringing that bell' is not nearly so simple. Even women who can masturbate to a climax with no difficulty can feel quite anxious about 'coming' with a male partner. This doesn't seem fair, because apart from the small minority of men who have psychological difficulties with sex and who cannot relax enough to ejaculate into their partner delayed ejaculation , most males have no problem at all in climaxing during sexual intercourse.