In her weekly column, she gives Complex readers insight into what today's young women really think about love, sex, and relationships. I know this might be hard for a lot of good guys to understand, but the classic saying about women loving jerks is true in a lot of cases. You would imagine most girls grow out of this after high school, but I know tons of women who suffer from the same poor judgement as adults. Women are complex creatures, and even though we say we want peace and happiness, our inner drama queen requires more intensity.
The Harsh Truth: Why Girls Go For Jerks
Why Assholes Get All the Girls | Men's Fitness - Love Systems
Here's how to inoculate ourselves against negative ones. Verified by Psychology Today. Valley Girl With a Brain. A few months ago, back in the golden days of interning at PT, I read a blog post that changed my life. He discussed the phenomenon of women falling for "bad boys" or "assholes" and included various research to back such claims. I encourage you all to read his post if you haven't, but if you want my CliffsNotes version, feel free to park your mouse here for a moment.
The Real Reason Why Women Reject Nice Guys And Go For The Asshole
Image by Adam Mignanelli. I'm a nice person. It's not in my nature to be an asshole.
Read the original Men's Fitness article here. It's a question we've pondered since junior high: Why do assholes get all the girls? Some are, but most women have very good reasons to reject nice guys. All in all, he might be a jerk most of the time, or to you specifically, but not necessarily to her. Here are the five biggest reasons why.