A few months ago, I had a round of these conversations with the usual suspects in my life. Think of it as a dick Overton window: a continuum of acceptability, but in this case, one that varies from person to person. Boyfriend dicks have a measurable component, of course, but not a consistent one. Vaginas vary in depth and sensitivity just like penises vary in length and shape, and where some women may enjoy the mix of pleasure and pain she gets when someone hung repeatedly bashes into her cervix, others want nothing to do with it. For the first group of women, a inch monster looks like a Christmas gift wrapped up in a pair of boxer-briefs. What really makes a boyfriend dick is a holistic evaluation of the situation at hand. But as much as American sexual norms have evolved over the past several decades, one stubborn idea remains relatively unchanged: When it comes to dicks, bigger is better.
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My last boyfriend had a long but super skinny one, which was weird. They all look pretty much the same and I think the difference is if a guy knows how to fuck. It felt like someone trying to fit their entire body inside me. Dick size is wayyyy down the list when it comes to whether a guy is good in bed: confidence, rhythm, making me comfortable, attraction—those are all much more important. A guy with a smaller penis is more attractive than a guy with a bigger penis who needs you to be all in awe of what he thinks is some cosmic accomplishment but really is just genes or biology or whatever. As a petite girl I can attest to the fact that big dicks are overrated.
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Here's how to inoculate ourselves against negative ones. Verified by Psychology Today. All About Sex. And every time, comments have poured in from gals calling me a fool, saying that size matters a great deal to them. Okay, size matters to some women.
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